How To Construct Biblical Criticism

         We have heard all of our lives that we shouldn’t judge others. If someone engages in an activity that we do not agree with, we are told to stay silent. Saying something could come across as an attack on their persona. However, staying silent is not always the best choice either. How can we provide for and receive help from our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ without judging or feeling judged?

     Many often resort to judging and looking at their fellow neighbor in a bad light. Maybe you have overcome the sin they are struggling, but remember when you were in the same spot? Humble yourself. You yourself are a sinner as well, and therefore cannot judge – only God can. Matthew 1:7 tells us “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.” Sure, you may not listen to secular music anymore, but are you still looking at others with lust? None of us are perfect, and therefore we would be hypocrites to put someone down for being a human, a sinner.

         Three words: Correct, not condemn. For example, if someone you know has been struggling with drugs, you want to become a safe space for them. Use comforting phrases that show your care for their well-being and offer a hand to pull them back on the right track. Doing the opposite can make someone feel like you do not truly want to help, you just want to appear superior. If you are on the receiving end of a conversation like this, keep in mind that the person is looking from the outside in. Not everyone will know what makes you tick, so listen from an understanding ear. Not even God sugarcoats sin, so those around you should not do so either.

         We encourage you to identify your intention. Ask the Lord to open your heart and reveal what your goal is when you comment: Are you looking to correct their behavior or condemn them? Remember that God is our One and True judge, so we should not try to insert ourselves in that role.